WOMEN WITH MALE FRIENDS THAT HAVE A BOYFRIEND
Women in America, I am talking to you. You may not like what I have to say on this subject. Let’s see, aren’t you the ones that say there are not any good men out there? Once you think you have found a good man, you have to know how to keep him. This is a definite way to get brownie points from your boyfriend. Listen to me closely, you have to let all of your male friends go.
What I am trying to get through to you is that it is a male thing. Men do not want to share their time with you, with another man. Men are very competitive and territorial by nature. It’s in our genetics and there is nothing that we can do about it. There is a certain jealousy that comes out of every man when they are faced with this situation.
So these questions are geared toward the women that have at least one male friend and have a boyfriend. Does your boyfriend’s attitude change when your male friend comes around? It does not have to be a significant change, but maybe some kind of unexplainable behavior difference? Does your boyfriend call your male friend your boyfriend in a joking manner? Believe me, he is not joking. Subliminally, this is how he is feeling.
These odd changes are not symptoms of bipolar disorder, perhaps they stem from the presence of your male friend. Although your boyfriend tells you that he is okay with you having a male friend or friends, he is not. As his girlfriend, you should not have to hear the words come out of his mouth. I’m alerting you right now, he is not comfortable with you having male friends at all. To tell the truth, if the shoe was on the other foot, you would not be comfortable with him having a female friend or friends deep down inside. It is understandable from both sides.
Women, please do not take offense to this article. This has been an advisory to the women that think it is okay to keep male friends, while in a relationship. If you love your boyfriend, this is one battle that you must throw the white flag in on. So women and men, in order to make your relationship work, work at your relationship.
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